See yourself clearly
Recognize patterns, needs, wounds, expectations, and boundaries before they quietly shape the marriage.
Plan the Marriage Foundations
The conversations that help you choose with open eyes.
A ten-module, self-paced marriage planning experience that turns assumptions into honest dialogue, practical decisions, and clear next steps.
10 modulesDigital workbookLifetime access
Private workbookBuilt for the conversations before the vows.
Launch offer$97
What changes
This is not about proving your relationship is perfect.
It is about knowing where you are aligned, where you need a plan, and where love should not be asked to carry what honesty has not yet addressed.
Ask better questions
Move past surface compatibility into the decisions that determine everyday married life.
Create shared plans
Turn difficult topics into specific agreements, follow-up actions, and professional questions.
Choose with integrity
Enter commitment because you understand the relationship, not because momentum made the decision for you.
The complete curriculum
Ten modules. One more intentional yes.
Each module combines reflection, partner-ready prompts, clarity signals, and questions to revisit after the first conversation.
01Identity before partnershipKnow Yourself First
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Know Yourself First
Clarify the patterns, needs, boundaries, and expectations you are bringing into marriage before asking your partner to understand them.
Questions you will explore
- What makes you feel emotionally safe?
- Where do you tend to abandon your own needs?
- Which patterns from your family do you want to repeat or interrupt?
02Build financial transparencyMoney
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Money
Move beyond income and debt totals into habits, fear, control, generosity, goals, and the practical systems that shape daily married life.
Questions you will explore
- What does financial security mean to each of you?
- How will accounts, bills, savings, and major purchases be handled?
- What financial information still needs to be disclosed?
03Define the new family systemFamily and In-Laws
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Family and In-Laws
Prepare for holidays, access, privacy, loyalty, caregiving, traditions, and boundaries before outside pressure tests the relationship.
Questions you will explore
- Who gets a vote in major decisions?
- How will you handle disrespect from relatives?
- What traditions are essential, flexible, or ready to change?
04Talk beyond the yes or noChildren: If, When, How
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Children: If, When, How
Explore timing, fertility uncertainty, parenting roles, discipline, childcare, education, and what happens if the original plan changes.
Questions you will explore
- Do you both want children, and on what timeline?
- How will caregiving and career tradeoffs be shared?
- What values will guide discipline and education?
05Create a language for closenessIntimacy and Communication
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Intimacy and Communication
Discuss affection, sex, vulnerability, privacy, rejection, repair, and how each partner wants to be approached when connection feels strained.
Questions you will explore
- How do you each initiate and receive affection?
- What makes difficult conversations shut down?
- How will you ask for change without shame or contempt?
06Make room for two futuresCareer and Ambition
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Career and Ambition
Name the sacrifices, moves, seasons, risks, and invisible labor that can quietly decide whose dreams receive the most oxygen.
Questions you will explore
- Whose work determines where you live?
- How will unpaid labor be valued?
- What happens when one career requires a major family sacrifice?
07Align the worldview underneath decisionsFaith and Values
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Faith and Values
Clarify faith, ethics, community, rituals, generosity, and the values that will shape your home when there is no easy compromise.
Questions you will explore
- Which beliefs are non-negotiable?
- How will faith or spirituality appear in the home?
- What worldview will guide future children?
08Plan for the moment love feels hardConflict and Repair
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Conflict and Repair
Identify escalation patterns and build practical rules for pauses, apologies, accountability, boundaries, and returning to the conversation.
Questions you will explore
- What does a fair fight look like?
- How long can a pause last before it becomes avoidance?
- What does a meaningful apology require?
09Replace fear with informed dialogueThe Legal Conversation
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The Legal Conversation
Understand the purpose of financial disclosure, property conversations, professional advice, and agreements without treating planning as a prediction of failure.
Questions you will explore
- What assets, debts, or obligations need full disclosure?
- What does each partner believe is fair?
- When should independent legal or financial advice be considered?
10Choose with open eyesThe Commitment
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The Commitment
Bring the discoveries together, identify unresolved issues, define next steps, and decide whether the relationship is ready for a clear and wholehearted yes.
Questions you will explore
- What remains unresolved?
- What needs action before the wedding?
- Are you choosing the real relationship or the hoped-for version of it?
Inside Foundations
A private workbook with a partner-ready flow.
Work through the material at your own pace, then bring the right discoveries into conversation without turning every topic into a confrontation.
- Guided reflection before partner discussion
- Plain-language prompts informed by family-law experience
- Red, yellow, and green clarity markers
- Return reflections for topics that evolve
- Decision notes and next-step planning
Plan the Marriage
Foundations
Private Marriage Planning Workbook
MODULE 02
Money
Financial transparency begins before the budget.
Reflection 03 of 12A thoughtful fit
Built for the woman who wants more than reassurance.
For you if...
- You are engaged or seriously considering marriage.
- You want deeper conversations without guessing what to ask.
- You value emotional, financial, practical, and legal clarity.
- You are willing to slow down when a topic needs more attention.
Not a substitute for...
- Licensed premarital or couples therapy.
- Independent legal or financial advice.
- Safety planning or specialized abuse support.
Course questions
Before you begin
01Can I take the course without my partner?+
Yes. The reflection begins with you. The partner-ready prompts help you decide what to share, ask, or revisit together.
02Is the course religious?+
The course includes a module on faith, values, and worldview because those beliefs affect marriage and parenting. The educational framework is designed to help you clarify your own convictions rather than prescribe a specific faith.
03Does Audrey provide legal advice in the course?+
No. The course is educational. It helps you identify legal and financial topics to discuss, but it does not create an attorney-client relationship or replace advice from a licensed professional who understands your situation.
04How quickly should I complete it?+
There is no required pace. Give difficult topics enough space for reflection, partner discussion, and professional follow-up when needed.
Plan the Marriage FoundationsThe wedding has a date.
The wedding has a date.
Give the marriage a plan.
Ten modules, private workbook, partner-ready prompts, and lifetime access.
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